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Relationships: Public vs private
Speaking openly about being in a non-traditional relationship is a tricky thing. On the one hand, I want other people to understand that, while it may not be for everyone, it works well for us and is...
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Who needs relationship rules and boundaries?
When I was monogamous, I rarely thought about rules within relationships. Other than the standard ‘no cheating’ which is pretty much a given for monogamous relationships – although definitions of...
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PolyDay 2012
On Saturday 16th June 2012, I headed to Dragon Hall in London’s Covent Garden for (if I remember correctly) my 4th visit to annual polyamory event PolyDay. The first time I attended, I knew no one...
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Poly means many, amor means love
Everyone knows what love is. That warm feeling you get simply because another person exists. The joy you get from having that person around. Pretty much everyone knows what romantic love feels like...
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Feminism Friday: Non-traditional relationships
When I dare to venture outside of the bubble I live in with my awesome open-minded friends – both on and offline – the amount of misogyny that crops up can be pretty baffling. We’re living in the...
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Definitions of non-monogamy
Over the weekend, Hella Walkington blogged about monogamy, polygamy and polyamory. She asked me to write a little bit for it and, I have to say, I was a bit surprised by her inclusion of the word...
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I’ve been missing you
You might think that polyamory is amazing all of the time but, sadly, you’d be wrong. As with other types of relationship, there are bad times as well as good. As far as I’m concerned, the good times...
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‘I couldn’t do it. I’m too jealous’
Guest Blogger #17 – Bethany Carman Rutter writes the fatshion blog Arched Eyebrow. She also tweets quite a lot about a whole host of other topics, so I asked if she’d like to write a guest post for...
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Gay, straight, bi… poly?
Some people describe being poly as an orientation, whereas others feel it is simply a matter of personal choice. To be perfectly honest, when the Poly Means Many bloggers chose this topic for...
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Only monogamy equals commitment?
One of the common misconceptions about nonmonogamous (including polyamorous) folk, is that they can’t commit. If they really loved someone, they’d stop all this nonsense. If we were really committed to...
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